I’m tired of talking about Stabby.

I’m thinking about going over an old case Jeffrey MacDonald.  He is what got me started down the true crime path and he is another one that will not go away.  His trial was a media circus, he’s an idiot and it might be cool to revisit.  OR you guys pick and I will write about it.  Whatever gets the most votes I guess for lack of a better word. Current or Old case, don’t care, I just need a palette cleanse from Stabby.  And yeah, I’m still sick, I feel like 10lbs of shit in a 5lb bag actually.  But I didn’t write last night so I am compelled.  What will it be kids?  Let me know in the comments.  Facebook is acting wonky so let me know on here.

Some examples


Betty Broderick



I won’t do Diane Downs.  I can’t deal with child killers. 



75 Responses to I’m tired of talking about Stabby.

  1. renaes24 says:

    Betty Broderick. She killed her ex……..but had plenty of reason to do so.

  2. emperorsartorial says:

    Michael Peterson – author
    1st & 2nd wife’s fall down stairs to their death and have unusual lacerations on scalp –


  3. renaes24 says:

    Peterson, isn’t he getting a new trial because they think an actual bird might have caused the last one?

    • reallybigmeandog says:

      I’ve heard that but I don’t know how much is reality based. should go look around. I just got some stabby news that is important so I may have to write her tonight anyway and do someone else to clear my brain tomorrow. Fuck.

  4. bigmeannurse says:

    Hai Kelly! Your choice sounds good and I know nothing! Just write for us…I look forward to everything you send us! Get better, and neglect us if you have to! (….sniff)😘

    • reallybigmeandog says:

      One night is about as long as I can go with out writing. I may have to hold off on a throw back till tomorrow, I just got stabby news that is important so I have to do that.

    • Mama Via says:

      I so totally agree! Write what makes YOU happy! You KNOW that we gobble up your words like Hodi gobbles…oh, wait…er…um…gobble up your words like…uh…Daym! Like a pig at a trough of….um…er..well…what EVER you write, we will read it and applaud! Using both hands…and maybe a standing “O”!!

  5. HarleyGirl says:

    RBMD, Please don’t write about Betty B. because I am concerned about somebody getting advice for another trial. You could email me to get more info if you want. I love you blog and I love the word Fuckery. My hubby calls me the Queen of Fuckery! I would like to read about the BTK. I have only heard about it but never heard the details. Thank you, Kelly

  6. jackie hatdie says:

    Joeseph Oberhansley of Indiana. Multiple murders, latest arrest for cannibalism. Sounds juicy!!

  7. karen30036 says:

    Jeffery McDonald was also a child killer. He was also a narcissist, an egomaniac, and a total worthless pile of shit. Hmmmm just like Stabby …

    • reallybigmeandog says:

      Hai Karen. That’s true, but I cannot handle it when the mom did it.

      • karen30036 says:

        The way he staged the scene “Manson” style and the “acid is groovy” and ‘kill the pigs” was so made up and transparent. He, like Stabby, think everyone are stupider than they are.

      • reallybigmeandog says:

        Hai Karen: EXACTLY!!!

    • renaes24 says:

      McDonald has always bothered me, perhaps because I worked a few shifts with him when he was working in Calif. (Long Beach) I have a hard time putting the Jeffery of the murders with the Dr McD of the Emergency Room.

      • reallybigmeandog says:

        renae: No shit? HOLY!! I always heard that he was somewhat of a control freak but a pretty decent doctor.

      • renaes24 says:

        As I recall, (remember it was over 30 yrs or so), he was a good doctor/ he really wasn’t a control freak …well, anymore than a lot of docs are….he WAS a neat freak. He was kind to the nurses and never put us down. If we did something in a manner he didn’t like, he would (nicely) show us a better ways……He had parties for the staff (nurses included) on his boat……
        That is why I have always had a problem: I just can’t see him doing something like those murders. I am NOT saying he didn’t…but I do understand all the people who question his guilt.
        I think it was about a year ago they started doing DNA test on about half of the ‘evidence’ and found a batch of ‘un-sourced’ DNA. Also, a bunch of unidentified fingerprints (though the prints don’t mean squat since the scene was so compromised) and then the state refused to do any more DNA testing.
        All this time and he still maintains his innocence. Good chance he would have been paroled if he admitted his crime. Instead, no chance to even go before the board for another 15 yrs. (This, when Manson gets to go before the board more frequently)
        To me, it is a true mystery

      • reallybigmeandog says:

        The whole story was so shady though really. Problem is the crime scene was so compromised nobody is ever gonna 100 percent that one.

  8. debdiva says:

    I’m sick of “DEAD GIRL WALKING TO PERRYVILLE” too! You pick! I’m going to stick with your hall closet…😁Feel better Kelly😘

  9. Camille Cimo says:

    Haven’t heard about tot mom lately

    CamilleSent from my iPhone


  10. Carolyn Brewer says:

    Jeffrey McDonald would be a good case to write about. What a total POS! Thanks for all the great writing. I love your sense of humor!

  11. BlueWhiteRed says:

    The MacDonald case always disgusts me on so many levels. When the ADA nailed Betty whe BB stupidly blurted, “I wish Dan was here to tell you.” ADA: “I wish he were here, too.” And BB smirked back, knowing she slipped up. But the case that interests me is the toxicologist who killed her drug hating husband with Fentanyl. I think she was in San Diego. I was stationed there and it was HUGE. She has some traction re an appeal but the big thing that is virtually unreported is her boss/lover was indicted! He’s Down Under and it’s not murder but conspiracy (not to commit murder, something lesser). He’s kind of untouchable it seems. And Mama Vua, thanks for your kind words and gratitude to you and family for serving the USA as well. Sorry your not on the mend and other shenanigans, Kels. A Reuben and Fries from the BWR family.

    • reallybigmeandog says:

      It’s the fact that the fucker just will not go away that gets to me. The finally ruled on his 2012 motion and he was once again DENIED. A reuben and fries sounds almost as good as poptarts.

  12. tb says:

    MacDonald. The crazed hippies did it. I’m obsessed with this guy.
    Thanks Kelly, you make my day!

  13. Mama Via says:

    Let’s see…there’s Dorothea Puente, Leslie Van Houghten, (the King of Fuckery) Charles Ng, anyone with the last name “Peterson” (Drew second runner up to Ng), Clara Harris, ……Canada’s hwy 16, Boston Strangler, Jack the Ripper…

  14. Nicole Collins-Andrews says:

    One of your followers is secretly working against you. She is tweeting nice to you and then talking behind your back. Be careful!!!!!!!!!

    • reallybigmeandog says:

      Hai Nicole. Aww sweetie, thanks for the heads up, but I’ve been around the block once or twice and I’ll tell you a secret. It’s more than 1. I don’t worry about stuff like that. Life’s to short to worry about being stabbed in the back. Hell, if I ever collect all the knives that have been stuck in my back I’m going to have enough metal to build me a car.

      • Mama Via says:

        Like a REALLY NICE Cadillac!! Gramma says “always remember, if they “get your goat”…they can’t KEEP it!” Man, I just LOVE “Gramma Says”!!

      • reallybigmeandog says:

        Like a really nice HumVi with the amount of steel I could pull out of that sucker. Good thing I have broad shoulders. They can keep the goat and consider it a gift from the only Dean of Fuckery around these parts. RBMD. I also just love gramma says. I think it should become a thing.

      • Mama Via says:

        Laughing! Gramma’s saying have helped me many times in life! I wish I could remember them all!! She used to tell me that I should “always listen to old people, cuz old folks don’t get old by being stupid!” And that’s right! When’s the last time you saw an 80 year old tweeker? A 75 year old gang banger? A “bad” day on this side of the dirt beats the hell out of a millennium in the underside of the dirt! I hope your eye is better today! Take care of that eyeball, otherwise, you’ll end up like old MamaVia, reading email with only one…and you’ll have to buy a damned parrot named “Spike” and say “Arrgh! Aye, Matey!” A lot…trust me, it’s a pain in the ass…and you always have bird poop on your shoulder, too. Love ya, Miss Kels!

      • reallybigmeandog says:

        right back at ya mama!

  15. Jeannie says:

    I’m a new follower and love your comments. I would like to see you write about the David Westerfield case. He killed little Danielle van Dam. Her parents were very brave to testify on the stand.

    • reallybigmeandog says:

      Hai new person. Welcome to our little slice of insanity Jeannie. We are a peaceful nation here, well mostly, except when I get my back a little up about Stabby or one of her minions. I’m going to do a little research on that case, sounds kind of interesting although I hate, hate, hate talking about dead children, I guess if I’m willing to talk about MacDonald I should be willing to at least consider others.

  16. Kathie Green says:

    Drew Peterson. Where is Stacy?

    • reallybigmeandog says:

      Hai Kathie. We have two drew Peterson pieces of human excrement, which would you rather?

      • Kathie Green says:

        Drew Peterson who was recently convicted of murdering his second wife, after his third wife went missing. Stacy has never been found – she left two young children behind.

      • reallybigmeandog says:

        my apologies Kathie, I was thinking of Scott Peterson and Laci. Head injury. Sorry.

  17. Owlie says:

    Betty Broderick. She was a complete whack a doodle. Her husbands treatment of her,I think, sent her over the edge.

    • reallybigmeandog says:

      Hai Owlie: Welcome to the wonderful world of the comments section of our program. We actually have a lot of fun here and Mama Via can always be counted on to bring in some lively conversation. Her Gramma said some really, really cool shit. As for good old BB. Another of my favorites, sadly it will have to wait for another day. There have been developments and there is something else I need to talk about tonight. I’m thinking Sickfuck Saturdays from now on since court is dark on Fridays, so I will be all out of fresh Stabby fodder for Saturdays anyway.

  18. Christine says:

    What about Bernardo and Barbie stabby?

    • reallybigmeandog says:

      Hai Christine: Dingding. Ladies and gents, we have a winner. Right from the land of maple syrup, hockey, kissing cods, and some other weird shit that we Canadian’s do, sickfuck Saturday, which of course is tomorrow, will be all about Paul and Karla Bernardo. Canada’s sickest twists in the history of ever. It’s got everything, all of it bad, so look forward. We could also do sickfuck Sunday since there have been so many great ideas and I do hate to disappoint.

      • renaes24 says:

        I second that one! Hubby is always telling me about it (I was working in Calif and living in Las Vegas at the time) and there are always references to it being made here in the Niagara region. Would love to know more. (Husband actually knows a lot more about one of the defense attorneys. A pos if there ever was one)

      • reallybigmeandog says:

        bernardo/holmolka it is.

  19. Owlie says:

    Is there a backstory to that Jordan Lynn Graham that pushed her newlywed husband off the cliff?

    • reallybigmeandog says:

      Hai again. Sadly no, I wish there was something cool like she planned it out for months and married him for revenge for some imagined slight and did it, but it was just for the insurance money. Pretty boring actually.

  20. BlueWhiteRed says:

    I was going to nominate a, IMMO, 2nd M = military, total psycho, Canadian…..Russell Williams. I was in Ontario during his sentencing and when I heard what he did to Cpl Marie-France Comeau, (of course, Jessica Lloyd and the anonymous others) I wanted to parachute in and take him out. Argh!

    • reallybigmeandog says:

      BlueWhiteRed: That one was so bad. Definitely one to keep in mind.

      • Carole Harrison says:

        Ah yes, Russell Williams. A cool headed murderer if ever there was one. A lot of uniformed mouths dropped when that story came out.
        Our US cousins will enjoy it even more because it will be a new case for them.

      • reallybigmeandog says:

        Now there was a sick twist that one. Christ on a cracker.

  21. karen30036 says:

    I hope you’re feeling better … your writing is funny, angry, awesome! Glad I found you.

  22. Connie Rust says:

    How about pit bull prosecutor Juan Martinez’s ‘Sleepwalker’ trial about the nutcase that claimed he was sleepwalking when he stabbed his wife 44 times b4 throwing her in the pool. I think it was back in 1999. I had the good fortune of being in AZ during that time and got to see JM in action. It was quite a trial.

  23. Karen says:

    Hey Kelly, two Canadian trials come to mind. You may have discussed before but putting my two cents worth in, lol. How about our ever so infamous Paul Bernardo and Karla Homolka and more recently the Sgt Ryan Russell and Richard Catchme but you can’t convict me? These are two for the books for sure.
    Feel better!!

    • renaes24 says:

      Karen, what is the Richard Catchme etc one about. Don’t think I have ever heard of it. (Only moved to Canada in 2010)

      • Karen says:

        Hey Kelly, this is the case where the Toronto police officer that was run down by snow plow (he died) by poor mentally disturbed richard Cathcart (I think I have his name misspelled?..) and he was found not criminally quilty cozzzzzz he was nuts. The exact date of said crime escapes me. Anyway he sits at the Whitby mental health hospital and got granted day passes, escorted of course cozzzz he’s nuts. This infuriated Mrs. Russell and she’s fighting this all the way. Good luck to her. Anyway, watched he funeral as it was televised on tv. He had a wife and young son, Nolan. Nolan was I think 3 at the time and at the funeral you could hear little Nolan say, clear as a bell “where’s daddy”. Oh Gawd, I friggin lost it, sobbed like a baby. This one really bothered me and because it was soooo close to home, it was another one of those, like I said, you can’t convict me cozzz I’m nuts cases and a piss off. Check into it for interest sake, a sad one. He got off and gets to live in the nice nut house, has a terrific view of Lake Ontario and the lakefront trail. Hope that helps you. Tata for now, happy blogging.

      • renaes24 says:

        I didn’t know that was the snowplow guy. I heard about that. Thanks

      • reallybigmeandog says:

        Hai Karen. Oh that sounds like one to look into for sure. Thanks for the tip.

  24. hb beachbum says:

    Hey Kelly, I am new follower. I love your blog. I look forward to reading. So glad I found you.

    • reallybigmeandog says:

      Hai new follower. Welcome to the comments portion of the program. Seriously, thank you so much for reading. It makes me happy that people like what I write.

  25. LindaNewYork says:

    All of the above would be great.

  26. Megrit says:

    Please, please, do MacDonald; he’s as guilty as sin. A great site for any and all info pertaining to this psychopath is Christinas Corner. He’s as big a liar as Stabby, probably even worse. A philandering megalomaniac. The physical evidence is the reason he’s been behind bars for 40 years; that and his late father in law, Alfred Kassab.

    • reallybigmeandog says:

      Hai Megrit. Welcome to the comment section of the program. McDonald will definitely be covered. He is what led me down this path of fascination with crime. I read Christinas corner all the time. Thanks for reading.

      • Megrit says:

        I enjoy your “stuff” so much! That’s funny, the psycho MacDonald is what got me hooked on crime too. I will definitely look forward to your musings….take care of yourself, ya hear?

      • reallybigmeandog says:

        Hai Megrit. Thanks for reading.

  27. Marlo Eno says:

    incroyable article, merci beaucoup.

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